A strange and remarkable day that comes only once a year in the end of November,

for the rest of the time it does exist but once in awhile.

This year, it's the fifth year since the trauma happened,

in the twinkling of an eye, it marks a 'leap' in time,

the calender or the remarkable date had been adjusted due to the spinning of the earth,

my emotion had slightly tune up across the time, that's a good thing indeed.

Another good thing was time make us transformed into a completely different person which don't look like us in past,

we learned to be good to each other, forgive and forget respectively.

Nonetheless,

the most sorrowful thing in my heart was this day holds another secret which I couldn't be able to unfold this myth.

I attempted to unlocked this secret from her,

but she doesn't even willing to tells me the truth whole-heartedly even a best opportunity had given.

Certainly,

sincerity means zero if truthfulness doesn't successfully convey to another person,

further than that,

all the 'documental' memorials between us are actually significant nothing,

no matter how many times I read up the letter of apology,

I still couldn't feel that kind of sincerity as the facts weren't convey to me.

I loathe the feeling when my questions were being ironized as a joke.

I hate her more when she pretended doesn't know anything and ask me what I want to know?

This is the most pathetic feeling in my heart when someone reject to be sincere with you.

And yeah!

That's why I have been saying that 

"We are not that kind of real friend"

My words actually came from this aspect or this meaning,

because I know that she wouldn't gives me a longer story which tells about what had happened at the moment when both of us had lost control.

I feel like asking her

'Do you know what you were doing at that time?'

Absolutely,

I think humans are only capable of small moments of honesty but not all the time.

When they get tired of being honest, they will head back to origin where how they lied in the first place.

While I,

I'm actually really... really... really... suffered to breath in the air of being traumatized,

Since the trauma began,

I'm actually living in an empty hollowness where I can't even feel myself are alive.

There were moments in life when it is all turned inside out,

what is real becomes unreal,

what is unreal becomes tangible,

the mild pains becomes severe pains,

1) Do as I say, not as I do. Their actions never seem to match up with their charming words. They have extremely high expectations in you, but don’t seem to follow those standards themselves. They are allowed to have dinner with their “crazy” ex who’s “still in love” with them, but they’ll give you the silent treatment for going out with your friends.

2) The rules apply to others, but they do not apply to me. They believe they are above the law—both legally and ethically. They feel entitled to behave however they choose, but others must be kept in line at all times. We see this in politics every single day, when our elected officials stomp across the morals they enforce upon everyone else.

3) It is always someone else’s fault. It's not their fault for lying. It's your fault for being so petty and pointing out their lie. They might also bring up your past mistakes, to prove that their lie isn't actually so bad by comparison. Someone is always out to get them, and that’s the reason behind all of their problems.

4) Anyone who points out my wrongdoings should be punished. When all else fails, you must be punished, so you learn not to point out their lies anymore. This can be done through triangulation, cheating, and most commonly—the silent treatment.

5) The perpetual victim. Their bad behavior always has sob-story roots. They learned to lie because of their abusive ex, or their abusive parent. They hate drama; all they’ve ever wanted is some peace & quiet, and yet they provoke more drama than anyone you’ve ever known. They declare their hatred of negativity, all the while calling you "hysterical" to anyone who will listen, even when you are completely ignoring them.

6) Condescending, patronizing, and superior. You feel like a child being reprimanded by an adult. They speak down to you as if you are intellectually deficient and emotionally unstable. They laugh when you try to express yourself, dismissing any concerns you might have as hyper-sensitive and crazy.

7) Lies & excuses. Hypocrites have excuses for everything. You will find that they spend a lot more time excusing their behavior than ever actually improving it. Instead of apologizing or admitting fault, they simply ignore reality & argue with solid evidence when confronted with it. Survivors also often notice that psychopaths seem to enjoy the thrill of lying. Sometimes it seems they've planted evidence that actually allows you to catch them. They lie even when the truth would suffice. Why? Because duping others is what they do. It is the only highlight of their otherwise insufferably boring lives. (Pathological lying)

1) Actions over words. Healthy, humble individuals do not constantly talk about the good things they have done, because it would be arrogant and uncomfortable. Instead, they prove it with their actions, which are intentionally ignored by hypocrites who can simply invent fake virtues with fake words.

2) The rules apply to me, but I feel bad for judging others. Ideal targets have always paid strong attention to rules and ethics. They are terrified of getting in trouble at school, or breaking the law, or hurting a romantic partner. They have been trained well, and they want to see the same good in others.

3) It is always my fault. Instead of blaming others for their problems, they tend to blame themselves for everything. Even the slightest suggestion that they’ve done something wrong will lead to long periods of introspection and self-doubt. They will rewrite reality in order to absorb the flaws of others.

4) Anyone who points out my wrongdoings might be right, even if I don’t remember doing that. Always willing to talk about concerns that others might have about them, and will work extremely hard to ensure they do not upset anyone else that way in the future. Willing to accept fault for something they didn’t actually do, if it means keeping the harmony.

5) I never want to be the victim, even when I have been harmed.Survivors remain largely silent after abuse, anonymously seeking out help for the nightmare they experienced. Ironically, a hypocrite will scream that you’re a perpetual victim for trying to quietly recover from the hell they put you through. (Victim blaming)

6) Gentle, compassionate, and flexible. Ideal targets will always be willing to compromise and make things better. They are approachable, warm, and sensitive to the feelings of others. Because of these qualities, they often attract negative and self-centered people like magnets.

7) Apologies. Will always say sorry when they do something wrong, even if they haven’t done anything wrong at all. While hypocrites will only apologize if they can get something out of it, their targets apologize in order to restore peace & trust.

Fortunately,

just being recruited by a large HR company for a managerial position.

I'm so happy that when I first get into a company,

I was selected as a HR recruiter whom learned to recruit an interviewee,

doing recruiting report and analysis are part of my job,

besides than that,

additional meeting, workshops, events and press conference are required to attend,

whereas majority of my clients are large companies in Australia,

such as Engineering company, Architecture company, Monash University, Government, law firms and the big four accounting firms.

Depends on the needs of interviewee - what they want to work,

for an example,

if they are engineers, I have to recruit them in the first place, and then make a report about their interview performance and send their profiles to the particular engineering company which currently provides vacancies.

This is my great responsibility as a recruiter to contributes to the society as my professionalism!

Yeah!

At this point,

I came to a realization where education background comes up, status will naturally arise.

Indeed,

education background muster up my confidence.

In my resume,

my education background was

'Bachelor of Journalism, University of South Australia, Australia'

'Diploma of arts, South Institute of Business and Technology, Australia.'

'Foundation of Engineering, Multimedia University, Malaysia.'

And in future,

it would be

'Master of Journalism'