What is Visionary Leadership
A moment ago,
when I reread my natal chart report through my email.
I focused those statements what why it keep mentioning my hidden potential is blocked,
and what does it mean in the psychic's sense?
I have heard this exactly same thing from the previous psychic,
I have heard this exactly same thing from the previous psychic,
but just don't understand and thus ignored it,
but today,
I find this sentence must be have some beneficial impacts or significant connotation,
it mentioned that I am a visionary and have leadership in this field.
hereby I googled up
'What is Visionary' and it came out
7 Qualities of Visionary Leadership
Becoming the "captain of your fate."
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Over the years, there have been more than 33,000 studies into the qualities of top leaders. All conclude that "vision" is the most identifiable quality of a leader.
Leaders think about the future most of the time. They think about where they are going rather than where they have been. They think about the opportunities of tomorrow rather than focusing on the problems of the past.
Only about 10% of people have this ability to look forward. This small percentage includes all the movers, shakers, entrepreneurs, business builders, top sales people, artists, musicians, and creators of all kinds.
To think like a leader, you must practice "idealization" in each area of your life. Begin by imagining that you have no limitations at all on what you can be, do, or have.
Imagine for a moment that you have all the time and money that you need. You have all the education and knowledge. You have all the talent and experience. You have all the friends and contacts. You are a "no-limit" person who can do anything that you really put your mind to. You aren't afraid to answer the following questions:
- If you could wave a magic wand and create the perfect situation in every part of your life, what would it look like?
- If you were the very best professional salesperson that you could possibly be, what additional knowledge, skills, and abilities would you have developed to a high level?
- If you were the best in your business, what sort of products or services would you sell? And who would you sell them to?
- What kind of people skills would you have? What kind of management skills would you have? Especially, what kind of sales skills would you have?
When you begin the practice of idealization, you can then extend this exercise to your family, your finances, and your physical health.
When you begin to think like a leader you begin to engage in what is called "long-term thinking."
Leader of Your Life
Top people are long-term thinkers. Average thinkers think only about the present, and about immediate gratification. But leaders think about where they want to be in five and ten years, and what they have to do each hour of each day to make their desired future a reality.
- Leaders inspire others because they are inspired themselves. They are excited about the possibility of creating an exciting future for themselves. They get up every morning and they see every effort they make as part of a great plan to accomplish something wonderful with their lives.
- Leaders are optimistic. They see opportunities in everything that happens, positive or negative. They look for the good in every situation and in every person. They seek the valuable lessons contained in every problem or setback. They never experience "failures;" instead, they write them off as "learning experiences."
- Leaders have a sense of meaning and purpose in each area of their lives. They have clear, written goals and plans they work on every day. Leaders are clear about where they are going and what they will have to do to get there. Their behavior is purposeful and goal-directed. As a result, they accomplish five and ten times as much as the average person who operates from day to day with little concern about the future.
- Leaders accept personal responsibility. Leaders never complain, never explain. Instead of making excuses, they make progress. Whenever they have a set-back or difficulty, they repeat to themselves, "I am responsible! I am responsible! I am responsible!"
- Leaders see themselves as victors over circumstances rather than victims of circumstances. They don't criticize or blame others when something goes wrong. Instead, they focus on the solution.
- Leaders are action-oriented. They are constantly in motion. They try something, and then something else, and then something else again. They never give up.
- Leaders have integrity. They tell the truth at all times. They live in truth with themselves, and they live in truth with others.
In the final analysis, you are the leader of your own life. You are the general in command of your own personal army. You are the president of your own personal services corporation. You are the "Captain of your fate and the master of your soul."
The acceptance of leadership is a great responsibility. It is both scary and exhilarating. Once you decide to become a leader in your life, you cast off the shackles of fear and dependency that hold most people back. With your own hands, you design your own future. You set yourself fully on the path to becoming everything you are capable of becoming.
After digest the information in this article,
I struck down by the sixth paragraph
"Imagine for a moment that you have all the time and money that you need. You have all the education and knowledge. You have all the talent and experience. You have all the friends and contacts. You are a "no-limit" person who can do anything that you really put your mind to. You aren't afraid to answer the following questions:"
yet,
I'm able to vision those abstract things that I already gotten ablove,
such as all the time, money that I need, education, knowledge, 'exorbitant' friends and contacts,
and i'm now seeking for the unfulfilled talents and experience in my mind,
I have strong thirst in talents and experience, thus my wish is to find a new proud job during my master's years....
I really seriously considered the paragraph above,
now I've got what I wanted,
money... time... quality social contacts.... and top education....
from what I'm seriously lacking now is the time has not arrives,
I'm still an undergraduate and I have a strong urge to quickly get out of college,
and be a post-graduate student and at the meanwhile start to build up my career life,
what I wish is to have a work-life balance life,
take a part-time property job while I'm studying my master,
work hard in both career and studies during my weekdays,
and have a day of sport during one of my weekend, while choose another day of weekend for my personal leisure, particularly spend time hanging out with quality friends at the mall in the afternoon and focus on my own home life at night.
That's what I'm expecting...
However,
I keep doubting about what's my 'hidden potential' which repetitively mentioned in the report,
the problem is as I don't know what is it and how I gonna unblock it?
Thus,
I googled up again
'What is the things that blocking someone's true potential'.
(Seriously i dont know what true potential that I instinctively having inside)
And the result came out,
Do you feel blocked from reaching your true potential?
Many factors can prevent people from becoming all they could be. Some are shy, for example, or are held back by limiting beliefs, attitudes or habits. Others suffer from chronic fatigue, or find their anxiety or depression is not responding as they’d hoped to conventional talk and drug therapy. Many seem to get only so far in terms of earnings, or in a sport or other performance-oriented pastime, and then stall out for reasons they don’t understand. Of course, way too many people have been abused, neglected, or otherwise traumatized in childhood or a later relationship.( Please see Is it Time to Heal that Old Wound or Trauma?)
Certainly,
its result and explanation just a such short one article,
or perhaps should I consider only a paragraph of words?
Yeah, I love it.
Because the writer trying to make things simple, ain't mawkish and straight to the point,
make the readers catch the points easier and even in less effort.
I have been reading this paragraph for thrice, not because I'm OCD,
just because the explanation is so powerful to make me reread it,
especially the last sentence
"Of course, way too many people have been abused, neglected, or otherwise traumatized in childhood or a later relationship"
Now,
I finally came to a vague realization that what's the true thing that blocking my true potential although it's a big awkward,
previous psychic mentioned it before, but I just couldn't grasp what she meant if she beat around the bust and said
"your past is blocking your true potential",
"your past is blocking your true potential",
and it my mind how could I understand my past is blocking my true potential,
absolutely it's a sentence, but it doesn't contains any meaning,
so I just don't understand it.
Today, I got another latest natal-chart report,
once again he mentioned the 'fog' since my childhood is blocking my true potential,
what the heck I know which and what fog is blocking me,
in my verbal dictionary, fog stand for a thick cloud which particularly occur during a cold weather.
Why don't just he straight-forwardly tells it's a life-long trauma instead of using quotation marks,
"....."
Well,
now I managed to understood what is the things that limited someone's potentials.
It sounds hurt when I read it,
but I'm okay, at least I get to understand "what are the obstacles of hidden potential" meant.
It's
"Of course, way too many people have been abused, neglected, or otherwise traumatized in childhood or a later relationship"
Right, this sentence is so true that majority of people have been humiliated,
awkwardly speaking, we say abused or neglected,
and other wise traumatized unreasonably in childhood.
Perhaps,
now I knew above statements are the true definition denoting me.
I believed that was the reason because in one of the starry nights,
very unreasonably, I couldn't tuck myself into bed and fall asleep despite I had swallowed the sleeping pill,
I even cried out soundlessly out of sudden,
and suddenly messaged one of my great friends,
"I feel that I really unlucky born in this world",
she replied me
"why you suddenly said so?"
I answered her
'Since when I was young, I felt that misfortune tragedies keep coming to me, I feel to end my life when I was eight, but I couldn't. My father and my mom both treated me unequally when I was in primary school, for example when I broke something accidentally, then my father will beaten me harshly, or when my mum seen I never draw a margin on my exercise book or didn't write a date on my exercise, she pulled my ears harshly and repetitively. And also, cooperated with my siblings to overcome me or to teased me, and frightened me that she doesnt wants me. A few times, she told me that she's running away from home and see how I gonna survive. And one of the times, she left me in shopping mall and threatened to left me alone. Then she also always badmouthed me to my father and asked my father beat me. And in my impression, because she always did that, my father beat me once in a week or few times in a week when I was around primary 1 or 2. Those memories are so powerful to me that why I couldn't remember things that seem impossible to remember. Regardless, it's 4 or 5 or 5 or 8 or 10 or 12 or even 17. My life just never had a good times, if even it is, it end very quickly, I remembered everything in details in my deep down, but always pretended that i don't remembered because it was too long ago. And then when I was 12, I thought I'm old enough to get rid this childhood misfortune, my driver even molested me for years. Well, my parents just dismissed him as a reason to comfort me, and never give any further reasons to heal my pain. Yes, I never experience the same pain any more, and thought i can get a peaceful life when I get into secondary school, who knows whenever every old misfortune came to an end, a new one will definitely arrives, an almost same thing happened in my life, I just feel that a sexual abuse just came to an end, and a brand-new physical abuse started in my life, and as a habit, I withstand and endure like how I suffered in past, I keep everything in silence and thought that when the right ending time comes, the tragedy will ends. I been waited the suffering for years, but until the last day of school, she never let go, and leave me an unforgettable trauma. Just feel that life is sometimes too unfair, I never do anything to her, I dont even throw the dustbin cover on her body, and don't even touch her anything, and she didn't even injured even at a mild breeze touch. but why the person who injured is me... When particularly looking at my childhood, I already feel that I'm miserable enough....'
It's just an emotional outburst in the midnight without any justified reason,
I have no reason to suddenly outspoken all these without any particular things trigger me,
it just a pure repression feeling in my heart that has had to triggered in one day.
Yes, I admitted, my emotions just like a volcano,
without any objects or subjects arouse those feelings,
it will just outburst at times; particularly in the late midnight.
Once in a few times,
I'll experienced insomnia although tranquilizers had tried its best,
at times I just couldn't understand why own parents wanna treat own child like that if they have no reason to do it.
I don't think it's fun nor necessary,
instead just find it curious.
I tried to abandon those unwanted thoughts,
but I just can't do it,
I attempted force myself think about other things,
but I'll just end up thinking the same damn things.
I wish I could pass away by a certain illness,
but I'm destined to survive till the right timing that I have to go,
sometimes,
I expressed on keyboard harder and harder,
getting suffer and suffer; the most frenzy, I will get suffocated when I'm crying.
My heartbeat will exacerbate till I knew I can't breath any more,
I know I didn't suffer any chronic heart disease,
but just have a certain non-auspicious sense that I'm almost hospitalize because I'm fainting soon.
Mommy called me these two days by herself,
she moved me because this is something she wouldn't do in past,
I am not really sure how to explain explicitly all these to myself,
it's just too flexible, uncertain and inflexible.
Maybe,
it might be the so called 'transition-period' which mentioned in my astrological report,
it just a transformation without any particular reasons,
my luck just altered it by that way.
For an instance,
I just can't believe that she told me
'That's why I tell you, you must believe me, cant you believe me that I wont harm you?'
Sometimes,
her words really reflected in my mind, and now my nightmare disorder really turned better,
I really have nightmares about her,
and even it does, her malicious behaviour all became kind-hearted behaviours.
However,
I still can't denied that I have a really 'trendy' nightmare about her yesterday which I never had bad impression of her for so long time.
But yesterday, I just dreamed of she forced to caned me like past,
didn't explain anything and just beat as many times as she wished in school although the dream scenario was not in school.
I don't know where it is, just dreamed that she randomly caned in a random location,
showing rage at me and caned me three times continuously while saying nothing.
(Just like in school, beat without saying anything, after beat just went away)
Even until today where the stage we had reconciled,
when I asked her about add math matter why she treated me that way?
The unpredictable thing was she smiled excitedly when I initiate that question,
I can see that she's still smiling with no regrets, and said
'Why, you like it the matter?'
it made me feel like she treated the matter as a joyous one instead of a sorrowful one,
her emotions really confused me sometimes,
it's like why a cruel incident is a happy one unlike she's a genuine psycho.
I guessed, she might be doesn't knows how to respond due to psychological unprepared,
so just smiled that way and behaved uncommonly,
well, perhaps I can ask her one more time, and to observe her reaction,
see whether the next reaction still the same as the first one,
vividly recalled the word when someone told me
"You should give her a second chance"
I guessed this statement can fully make use in this sense?
I'm now asking myself,
is she a devil in my heart?
Why I still have such evil dream?
Whyyyy she can be so aggressive in my dream,
and tomorrow she can be a kind lady who offered me an ice-cream in my dream,
or following day she could be a friendly lady who tries to touch me in order to entertain me in the hall?
The dreams are just too flexible and unpredictable,
I just don't know what kind of person she is,
yesterday i didn't manage to wake up when I had such nightmare bout her,
because the aggressive content is just too vivid and authentic for me that it's impossible she wouldn't do that.
Perhaps, time still doesn't fade those pain away.
One things that keep troubling in my mind is that 'how long consider long'?
Last week, I asked a friend about this question,
I asked him
"do you think how long consider long, what about 5 years?"
(im actually asking about add math tragedy for myself)
(im actually asking about add math tragedy for myself)
he asked me back'How long consider long? Erm, do you mean in the case of relationship or hurts or in what sense?'
I didn't want to let him know that I have trauma,
so I just selected the case of 'relationship' to make him don't doubt that I have a trauma,
since the 'relationship' between us triggered the overall stories.
He answered
'If in the sense of relationship, 5 years are not long, just like my fiancee had passed away in 3.5 years ago, I feel that it just like yesterday's matter, because it's hurtful to me.'
His response really satisfied my doubt,
I asked him again
"You mean if someone feels hurt, then won't feel long?'
He answered
"Yes, because when you feel hurt, you'll keep thinking, then when you keep thinking, it just like yesterday's matter. People usually perceive happy things as momentary and perceive hurtful things as permanent, like if you enjoy something, went to vacation, you're happy, and when people ask you how long you went that place, you'll definitely answer uhmmmm its quite some time I been there although it just a year, but a traumatic memory last a lifetime, so 5 years is not long like my fiancee passed away in 3 years ago, I just feel it just yesterday matter, because I keep thinking it.'
I answered
"I never tell you my case is a sorrowful case, why you judge my case as sorrowful first? Maybe I went America for holidays in five years ago, and I ask you will that consider long? cannot?'
he laughed and answered
'hahaha! That couldn't be, what so important about your America trip in five years ago that make you unforgettable and then ask me five years consider long?'
At that time,
I think yeah it's true,
usually people perceive trauma as yesterday's matter,
we'll keep remembering something in mind without any apparent reason,
it's like a memorial in life which couldn't get rid by ourselves or by anything,
just need a significant hint to self-inspired ourselves,
anyway I really appreciate that I had a chance to go through 'transition-period' that mentioned in my astrological report,
he's right, not anyone had a chance of transformation,
he said ordinary people have constant constellation motion which move along their planetary line,
but extraordinarily,
I have an inconstant motion which make me have chance to move to steroids,
where the lucks are.
He explains that is why most people have up-and-down life,
they achieve their goals by own efforts, got promoted when they really put in some effort, and some other days, they got a really big bad day like accident or some unfortunate things keep coming in their life (a few unfortunate things happen in one day), and then the next day they lead a normal lives again due to the constant motion.
But he said i'm sort of extraordinary which my line is not in constant motion,
I'll get luck every 12 weeks (which are every three months) that make me so lucky in the ladders of career.
And now,
finally my life have some positive transformation,
the person who abused me in past surprisingly wanted to be good to me and claimed that she wasn't be bad any more,
at times, I really asked myself
"Am I dreaming?"
and asked kaima that
'Eh! Yesterday I am dreaming? Because I every day dreamed, so I can't differentiate between reality and dreams, are you sure this time I'm not dreaming?'
When kaima heard my seriousness,
she even laughed like hell and said
'Hahahah!!! Why you will ask like that one? So cute! Of course is real, you want me to tell Pn Lye to tell you a few times so that you will know you're not dreaming? Tell you one time, you'll feel that you are dreaming right? Ahahaha! Also true la! Should ask her tell you more times that she now change already... Clar, you really not fa mong la! She really want to treat you good.'
I said
"I dont know, because my dreams always very weird and unpredictable one, I can dream of anything, I can even dream of she took the same rocket and me and take off together even we are enemy, so when she told me she never harm me any more, I will thought I dream that enemy told me that she never harm me any more.'
LOL! When I seriously said that,
Kaima laughed till coughed due to my multiple dreams confused me between the reality and dreams.
Now,
even she treated me good already I still thought it's dream....
This proven that how terrible she was in the past,
almost 10 years treated me badly, and one year treated me good.
It's logically inconceivable okay?
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