Have to be brave and overcome her

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That's so true!
Google understand me the most.
Google teach me have to be brave and overcome her!


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To dream of being chased is commonly in response to something in your waking life that you fear. It is often an emotion of some sort. If this is the case, get up the nerve to turn and face your pursuer. What facial expression do they have? This often reads the feeling that you are trying not to acknowledge. If they look worried, perhaps you have been trying not to fret about something in your life. This dream tells you that you must embrace this concern and deal with it head on. You must worry, and you must accept. 


In some rather rare dreams, your assailant can symbolize an actual person in your life. This person has made you feel insecure in one way or another, and until now, you have simply run from them; ignored them; avoided them. This dream is telling you that you can't do this anymore. This person is taking an emotional toll on you, one that you can no longer afford to tolerate. Action must be taken.


Dreams of being chased like this are often recurring nightmares. This means that the sleeping individual wakes up before the awful dream had a chance to end and reveal its secrets. The person goes on to dream it again and again usually, until the subconscious gets its point across. This is because the information is vital to that particular individual's life. Once they become brave and confront their attacker, the dream will generally cease. 


If the situation is reversed and it is you who is doing the chasing, this simply means that you are going after your goals. In the dream, ask yourself, 'What am I chasing?' It could be a taxi cab, a bus or anything else for that matter. If you manage to catch it, this foretells luck in your financial and business oriented situation. In most cases however, the dreamer does not catch their target. This simply means that they feel as though they aren't good enough to attain it. They harbor feelings of ill confidence and despair. While they are typically rather intense, such dreams of pursuit are necessary for mental stability. When something is bugging you, your subconscious will tell you, whether you want to hear it or not, so try listening to it keenly always helps.




According to the dream's interpretation,
it wrote people who always dream of being chased over and over again,
means afraid of that particular person.
The only way to stop the nightmare from over and over again is to brave and confront that person.
It wrote 
"Once they become brave and confront their attacker, the dream will generally cease. "






I've decided,
I really don't want to scared of her any more,
if she really comes out,
I will really confront her by fight back her.
But the thing is Hk said I don't have the force to fight back her;
two days ago talked in the phone with HK,
i told him that next time if pl beat me I wanna hit her back already,
he even said
'I think you da bu guo tar....'


I asked
'Why? I young people, she old people leh! My force must be greater than her.'
He even said
'No la... I dont think so, I think she stronger than you.'
I said
'Last time I got learn Taekwondo leh! I learned till blue 2 already. Blue 2 then until red, after red then black belt already leh.'
He even said
'Not what taekwondo lah... I think is because your wrist too small already, once she catch you, you already cant move, how to fight?'
I said
'Cheh! She got so geng meh? Once she catch me, my hand straight simply pull and push lah! Then can released edi...'
He said
'No la... I think she can one palm catch your two hands then your two hands straight cannot move edi...'
I said
'Cannot lo I think.'
He said
'I think can lo... your two wrists stick together is only equal to one fat people's wrist...'
I said
'Eiiii... your this thinking wrong already, now must think I catch her, not she catch me. Must think I catch her wrist and she cant move. Now dont think of I scared of her already, your thinking is like I very weak like that.'
He said
'Haha! Anah! Because you too small already, just like that time, she can straight carried you into her house.'
I said
'But wont very heavy meh? I 39 Kg leh!'


He even laughed very loud and said
'Hahaha! 39 Kg is the light one, one in the million. I can carried you up with one leg.'

I said
'Normally girl how heavy ones? Like my age... for example, how heavy is lye chuin li? Agak agak...'
He said
'Lye Chuin Li ah? Around 65 like that lo....'
I laughed and said
'Hahaha! Where got so heavy? Impossible lah! Too big difference with me already... I think she around 40 plus lah....'
He said
'Impossible lah... 40 plus is like slim ones only got 40 plus... like your sisters that size only got 40 plus....'
I said
'Then my mum leh?'
He said
'Your mum around 50 like that... normally girl with normal size sure above 50 ones...'
I said
'Then lcl I think is around 50 something... she normal size....'
He said
'Lcl where got normal size? I think she is consider fat ones... if fat ones sure got above 60 ones....'
I said
'You leh? I think you so slim, you got 45?'
Hk even laughed and said
'Hahaha! Head lah! I am 65KG.'
I said
'Har! Then you not same fat with lcl?'
He said
'I am man, so different, man is more heavy ones... man 65KG consider very slim already.'
I said
'Then Pn Lye leh?'
He said
'Pn Lye ah?? Also around 65Kg like that lo....'
I said
'No lo... I think dont have so heavy lah...'
He said
'Got lo.. She so fat...'
I said
'Where got fat? I think she consider normal size leh....'
He said
'Got leh, you see her hand there, thick thick ones...'
I said
'No... her hand is because the length very short, so will seems fat, but actually not fat ones... is because her arm length is short, so will look like fat fat like that....'
He said
'Then I think her range is at 55-65 kg like that....'
I said
'Oh I knew edi! Your mum how heavy? Since she got same size as your mum!'
He said
'My mum 56kg.'
I said
'Then she also around 56kg lo...'
He said
'No la... I think she fatter than my mum a little bit, maybe she is around 60 KG like that lo...'
I said
'Then lye chuin li leh?'
He said
'Also 60KG lo...'
The most funny,
I even said
'Ah! I knew edi... Google check haha!'
He even laughed and said
'Zha dao! Want to know people how many KG also can google check haha.'
I said
'Wait me...'
He said
'Ok.....'







When I typed in Google search engine,
it even came out older age has a higher weight!
After that,
I even go this check Lye Chuin Li's BMI ! LOL!
I assumed she same height as me 157cm, and assumed her as 56KG.
And it came out she is in average category with BMI 22.7 ! Funny!




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After that,
I typed into Google search engine
'What is the average weight for 20 years old.'
It came out

What Is the Average Weight for a 20 Year Old?

Answer

The average weight of a 20 year old boy is 72 kilograms (160 lbs) and the average weight of a 20 year old girl is 58 kilograms (130 lbs). However, every teenager is different in the way they mature and the way they grow during their teen years.






I told Hung Kiat
'Eh! It wrote 20 years old is around 58KG. Then I only 39 KG. Too far away le bah? 19KG different?'
He said
'Anah! That is why last time when you went KL body check-up for apply student visa, they thought you got problem and cannot apply visa for you. Because too kua zhang edi....'
I said
'Funny! The immigration department asked my father bring me to Gastroenterology. Haha! They thought my intestine got problem, cannot digest! Funny!'
He said
'Anah! Because 39KG too far away edi....'
I said
'No, because the doctor said my BMI is only 15.8, he said normal people must at least 18.5, means 18.5 is the minimum already. Means the slim ones also around 20 ones... but I only got 15.8... he said 16 also dont have... so very serious edi...'

He said
'Then at last how?'
I said
'At last very funny... after he asked me question, he said I am normal, intestine dont have problem, then he told my father if intestine dont have problem means severe depression. Cant sleep cant eat. Funny!'
He said
'Then after that how to get visa?'
I said
'After that, my father told him about add math case lo... my father told him it just trauma but not depression, then after that, he said oh I see, he said he just want to make sure not long term depression only, then my father said no... my father said is around 2-3 years ago matter... then he just approved me...'


He said
'Then he never check you meh?'
I said
'Got lah! That time when he body checked me, I remembered he still keep on touch my nenepot some more! You know our nenepot there got the pink color, tu chu lai ones?'
Hk even laughed and said
'Knew lah! Zha dao! Everyone also got....'
I said
'Ah... he keep on used his second finger and third finger, keep on touch the pink color ones... like make a circle like that.. round round round like that for very long....'
He said
'Walao! I think you eat your tofu! This is hamsap doctor!'
I said
'Check dont have like that ones meh?'
He said
'Dont have lah! Yours is intestine ones... where got touch breast ones... he cheat you ones... that time your father didnt around meh?'
I said
'No.. he just told my father he wants to body check me, see I got intestine problem or not... then my father wait me outside, left the doctor alone with me.'
He said
'How old is the doctor?'
I said
'50 plus....'
He said
'Then sure kena edi lah you! What he did to you?'
I said
'At first, he told me: Ah girl dont move ah, doctor check ah... then I said ah... then I never move lo... just lie down at there and let him check... then he took away my bra, then he used the stethoscope listen my breast... after that, he used his second finger and third finger keep on touch my breast, the pink color dot... touch touch touch like that, then after that he used his finger keep on encircling my nenepot! Until got 3-4 minutes like that.'
He said
'Then whats your reaction?'
I said
'I dont know what he is doing, I just wait him to done only... that time I still can like very relax like that, one hand put under my head and my leg tiao kah some more!'
Hk even laughed and said
'Zha dao! People touch your nenepot you wont got big reaction ones meh?'
I said
'That time I dont know mah... he just asked me dont move then I dont move lo...'
He said
'Then when you touch your nenepot for that 3-4 minutes, where are you looking?'
I said
'I just looking here and there only, awhile look at the ceiling, awhile look at the fan, awhile look at him.'
He said
'Hahaha! Zha Dao! When you look at him, how he react?'
I said
'He dont care where I look, he just continue keep on use his hand to encircling my nenepot! I still remembered he used his finger pressed my nenepot the pink color ones some more! Keep on press press press the pink color dot until got around 15 times like that, then I asked him : why you press press press so long ones? Then he said: Ah girl wait ah... almost done... doctor check...'
He said
'Walao! I think he think you got problem, and eat your tofu! That is why he dont care you look at him, continue molest you!'
I said
'Anah! I look at him is like wait him to check finish like that... I awhile look at fan, awhile look at wall, awhile look at ceiling.... like very impatient like that...'
He said
'I think he think you dont know everything lo... that is why he dare to molest you like that! Where got people check intestine like that ones! I think he is hamsap doctor!'
I said
'But he talk to me very good ones oh? Very polite ones... like saying ah girl dont move ah... doctor check ah.. and say ah girl wait ah... almost done... talk softly ones...'
He said
'Of course lah! Want you listen to him mah.... plus I think he talked to you in that manners means sure know you got problem only will talk to you like that....'
I said
'Also true! You never say I also never realized he molested me until today! But doctor got hamsap ones meh? Very hard to imagine leh!'
He said
'Got lah! Actually got a lot doctors are hamsap ones leh... My father got one friend is doctor, then that doctor told my father, his another friend is doctor, hamsap ones... he is Obstetrics and Gynecology ones... then when helping people delivering baby, means can touch lower part body only, but he go and opened up that women's upper part baju then everyone said that doctor is hamsap ones! Eat people tofu when the women is anesthetized edi...'
I said
'Means the women also dont know he opened up his baju?'
He said
'Dont know la... she already being injected with ma zui yao....'
I said
'Walao! Like this also can! But he dare to opened up the women's baju when got nurses beside meh?'
He said
'Dare lah... aiya he is boss, the nurses are his subordinate, people also cannot do anything... but will spreading behind only... '
I said
'But he dont scared people will spreading rumours behind?'
He said
'Maybe some people dont care ones lo... just like add math case, Pn Lye can beat you like that in front of lye chuin li...'
I said
'But lye chuin li is her daughter, how dare she simply spread her mom's rumor behind?'
He said
'Not say rumors not rumors la... do like this means wrong la... where got mother do like that in front own child ones? Imagine your mom is pn lye, you are lye chuin li, and lye chuin li are you in that case, then you dr mom beat lye chuin li that way in front of you, what will you feel?'
I said
'Mmmm.... because my mom wont do that, so if she really does that, I will think very weird lo... But Pn Lye not say she wont do that also, lye chuin li also nothing surprise....'
He said
'My meaning is even want to do that also dont do in front of lye chuin li lah.... because is very weird a mother do like that in front of a child...'
I said
'Eh... when u said like that I recalled of one thing... last time the doctor also very surprised when he knew Pn Lye do things in front of her child...'




The doctor asked me: When that teacher saw you, what she will do? 


Then I said: She will get angry. 


Then he said: I knew will angry, I mean what she will do when she saw you?



I said: She will get angry and put dog into my car.



He said : Put dog? How put dog?


I said : Put dog means open my car door and put the brown color dog into my car.



Then he asked me: Then when she put dog into your car, her child and her husband never see meh?




I said: Her husband is sleeping upstairs and her child also put dog into my car together with her.




After I said like that,
then the doctor Har one sound! Very funny! Haha!




Hung Kiat even laughed very loud when I said like this!
Hk said
'Zha dao! Haha! Then what the doctor said?'
I said
'The doctor just har one sound and never say anything already... like very surprised like that... but very weird meh? Maybe I already used to that kind of situation so I dont think anything weird.'
He said
'Weird lah... you told who, who will also surprised ok? Because very weird, normally mother also want own child to be very good, or got moral that type... so wont do this kind of thing in front of own child,  the second reason is very shy want to do like this in front of own child, scared own child think her very weird also... means want her self-image so wont do that in front own child... if she really really want to do that also when own child not at home only do like this..... so considered very weird lah...'

I said
'But put dog into car very weird meh?'
He said
'Weird lah! Where got people do like that ones? The purpose of people adopt dog is to guard house, where got people adopt dog is to frighten people ones?'
I said
'Maybe Pn Lye one stone kills two birds? Haha!'
He said
'Then how was your father reaction when he heard you told the doctor put dog into car?'
I said
'He just listened and say nothing until the last part when I answered: Her husband is sleeping upstairs and her child also put dog into my car together with her. Then my father straight told the doctor: You see! Like that lah! Last time also like that, she can caned her together with her child some more!'
He said
'Haha then what the doctor said?'
I said
'The doctor confused my father's meaning... funny! He said: Means she caned both her daughter and her together? Then my father said: NO! She and her daughter caned her!'
When I said like that,
Hk even laughed very loud and said
'Hahaha! Zha Dao! The doctor very funny! Confused who caned who.... then the doctor not laughed?'
I said
'Anah! He laughed himself because he confused who caned who... he thought my father's meaning is Pn Lye caned lye chuin li and me together... but my father's meaning is Pn Lye and lye chuin li caned  me together...'
He said
' Hahaha! Laugh die me! Quite funny! Then your father didnt laugh?'
I said
'No... my father normally how funny also wont laugh ones...'
He said
'Then the doctor never ask about her husband?'
I said
'Got... just now not mention edi? I said her husband is sleeping upstairs...'
He said
'Then what the doctor said?'
I said
'No, after I said her husband is sleeping upstairs and before the doctor say anything, my dad straight told the doctor: No la... I think she got family problem... I never see her husband before...'
He said
'Anah! Normally people will think that way, but you very funny! Hahaha the husband is sleeping upstairs... very funny leh you said like this... the doctor never laugh when you said like that?'
I said
'No... he just continued talked to my father only... but to be honest, when I go her house so many times, I just think of her only, never think until her husband there. So when the doctor asked, I just think of maybe sleeping upstairs then I said sleep upstairs only. Eiiii... why my father just go few times only he already knew she dont have husband ones? But why I go so many times edi still dont know?'


He said
'Aiya common sense... I also knew she dont have husband ones... you see ah... wife got problem, husband sure will come out ones mah... just like when your father go her house, if her husband saw eh somebody came edi; my wife got problem outside, sure quickly go out ones...'
I said
'I knew edi... if she havent divorce or separate with her husband, the only reason her husband wont come out is because Pn lye is feminist ones... means all family issues or everything under are her control ones... so her husband cant do anything and dont dare to involve. I think this is the only reason.'
He said
'Maybe lo... like my mom and my dad... when my mom beat the maid, if my dad stop her, she will get angry ones... or else she will run away from home...'
I said
'Or you think if Pn Lye's husband stop her from beating me, she will get angry and run away from home also? Hahaha! So her husband dont dare to involve...'
He said
'Most probably lo...  actually from the way she behaved, I think very obvious she is feminist type ones...'
I said
'Or her husband is sleeping?'
He said
'No la... sleeping also will quickly come down ones... I think most probably she dont have husband....'
I said
'Last time form 4, at add math tuition, when tee syi rui said: I really hairan Pn Lye's husband like her which part? Then I said: Pn Lye dont have husband ones! I never see before... you see Pn Sio husband, I saw before, Lim Lay Yuen husband I saw before... but Pn Lye husband I never saw before, I think she dont have husband. Then when I said like that, tee syi rui and pn lim laughed at me very loud HAHAHAHA like that. Then Pn Lim said got... she said if Pn Lye dont have husband means dont have lye chuin li already, then Tee Syi Rui still laughed at me and said: If Pn Lye dont have husband, Lye Chuin Li bao hui lai ones ah? Hahaha!'
Hk said
'I knew got is got la... but maybe separate or divorced edi....'
I said
'But that time when I said she dont have husband is form 4, but when form 5, I saw her husband.'
He said
'Where? How come you will saw her husband ones?'
I said
'That time after recess, I went into the guard house and played... around 12pm like that, then I suddenly saw her MBM 8490 car came in the gate, that time I suddenly get frightened, my eyes startled because thought is Pn Lye, scared she saw me played at the guard house mah... then when I saw the person driving inside wasn't Pn Lye, but is a man that almost similar age like her... like 50 plus like that... impossible Pn Lye's son 50 plus years old mah... besides than her son, still got who? Impossible Pn Lye simply let people drive her car mah... then knew is her husband edi...'
He said
'Haahaha! Very hard to imagine how her husband look!'
I said
'Her husband ah? That time I saw he wearing formal, light blue short sleeve with collar ones... but from his looks looked like quite messy like that, because his hair look like didn't comb and didn't button the first top button... look like ah beng ah seng like that, plus he got a little big size so look a bit fierce, but at the same time his face got a bit look like pity pity like that...'
Hk even laughed and said
'Zha dao! Hahaha! A bit fierce but a bit pity?'
I said
'Anah! That day when I saw pn lye's husband, I get frightened because he big size look very fierce... then on that night, I got nightmare, I dreamed of I disturbed lye chuin li, something like throwing eraser pieces into her bag, then after awhile, pn lye's husband came and find me.... he came to me and said: Eh girl ! Just now you disturbed her eh? Lye Chuin Li and Pn Lye stand at the public phone there keep giggling behind... like very happy when I get scolded like that...'
He said
'hahaha! Then how you response to her husband? Funny leh! Saw people big size only also got scared until nightmare!'
I said
'I very scared when her husband came to me, I just keep quiet and said nothing only... then he said: Next time dont disturb her eh...'
He said
'hows her husband voice? Hahahaha!'
I said
'Mmmmm... I still remembered the voice in my dream, but I cant describe out. Because nobody has his voice. Not very bold and not very sissy, neutral. Got a little bit sounds like Chua Gong Hong like that, but his voice more normal lah...'
He said
'Eh! You got any pictures of her husband or not? I want to see leh... very curious....'
I said
'Wait ah... I search Lye Chuin li's profile see whether got or not...'
He said
'Ah....'



After around 5 minutes,
I said
'Aduh!!! I saw edi... wait...'
He said
'Where? Sent me through facebook message.'
I said
'I sent to you edi... The Maroon shirt ones... I very confirmed I saw this person on that day when I was at guard house.'

Hk even laughed and said
'Zha dao! I think his impression really frightened you already that is why you can remembered his face until today.'
I said
'Anah! Even got nightmare edi still cant remember? I very remembered is that one... his hair messy messy ones and one button never button up ones... plus I knew got a bit fat fat and dark dark ones... the day when I saw him, he wore the exactly this shirt, but in light sky blue color ones... you saw already?'
He said
'wait... oh saw edi saw edi! Hahaha!'
I said
'How his look? Fierce or pity?'
He said
'I think look like pity pity like that lo... hahaha maybe Pn Lye abused him at home... that is why he dont dare stay with pn lye edi....'
I said
'Anah! That is why I dont know how to described his look... look fierce, but still got a bit look pity pity...'
He even said
'No la... I think for you, whoever whom are big size and dark skin you thought as fierce. LOL!'






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